What to Gift a Child During Hospital Stays

This is an excellent question, and while answers may vary from person to person, my response is straightforward: provide them with a supportive little buddy.

Reasons for Choosing a Buddy

• Flowers Fade, Buddies Stay: Flowers may wilt, but a buddy remain a lasting companion.

• A Special Connection: Reflecting on our long stays, when my child was in the hospital, receiving a teddy bear was a memorable moment. Unlike other toys, a teddy served as a comforting companion. However, not one of the teddies we had could accompany us in every room.

• Versatile Role Models: That’s why I advocate for getting a buddy; they are designed to be present in every room and serve as ideal role models helping parents and medical staff to explain medical treatment and procedures.

The Role of a Buddy

A buddy goes beyond being a mere medical companion; they become the ultimate secret keeper. They serve as a visual reminder to:

• “Breathe”

• “Stay present”

• “Ground yourself”

• “Reframe” overwhelming thoughts

Interestingly, they also provide visual cues for parents, which aids in co-regulation and enhances communication.

Advocating for Early Introduction

We strongly believe in introducing a buddy early on and teaching children these essential skills. It’s not solely about their role in hospital settings; focusing on each of their skills and characteristics can help soothe the nervous system and establish a solid foundation, enabling them (kids and adults) to navigate challenges more effectively.

If you know someone – be it a child or adult – experiencing medical situations or recovering from trauma, we encourage you to share our resources to raise awareness of our support.

So, what should you gift a child facing a hospital experience or undergoing medical treatment? A supportive little buddy!